Once again another marriage has ended in my circle of friends, so what my husband did to me comes back around and shows it's ugly face.
I found an article about cheating. Cheating husbands to be exact... So below are the facts taken from the article and of course my remarks about the facts….
* Men are more likely than women to cheat. It is estimated that close to 50% of all men will cheat at some point in their lives.
How sad that we have lost from our hearts what God meant for marriage to be.
* Husbands are also more likely to engage in online cheating – using chat rooms, web cams and online services to arrange sexual encounters (including prostitution).
So when your husband leaves you and you find his computer is loaded with pornography - here's your sign.
* The more money a husband makes, the more likely he is to be unfaithful. Having more money brings more opportunity and wealth tends to attract more women
Or when your husband lets people think he is loaded so that the women are eager to be there…
* A lack of sexual excitement or the routine of having sex with the same person often leads men to stray. Men are more likely to be drawn to the thrill of having sex with someone new.
But if your husband was very vocal that your sex was good - the truth is - I think he fantasized about the woman he was with the night before…
* Husbands are less likely than wives to consider leaving their spouse when having an affair.
True…But when that husband meets some woman and sees that she or her family may pad his wallet or increase his wealth…he will leave.
* A cheating husband is more likely to have an affair with someone who is younger than his wife.
When I caught my husband cheating during our 34 year marriage it was always with a younger woman… the one he left me for is 24 years younger than he is…
* When having a one-night stand, men are less choosy than women when it comes to selecting someone to have sex with.
I guess that would be the older fat and flat-assed woman my husband told me he had sex with??? Yeah he did tell me that!
* Husbands are more likely to feel that cheating is justified due to the lack of sex within a marriage.
So we didn’t have enough sex? Of course we didn’t! When you’re married to a addict ( and log-in times leave a trail of habitual obsession) it’s never enough!
* Husbands are much more likely than wives to be serial cheaters.
And my husband was!
And shame on him for cheating on his wife...even once!
And shame on me for forgiving him too many times!
And shame on the women who sleep with married men!
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com

