I am a unique individual. I am Democrat, Republican, Conservative, and Liberal. I am the Left; the Right.
I am a Theist, and a Fundamentalist. I am pragmatic and idealistic.
On February 5 2014 I was diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer.
So - Get out of way - I am coming out with my boxing gloves on...

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1.20.2012

How Con Artists Work

I found this great article on Con Artists by Ed Grabianowski

Con artists make money through deception. They lie, cheat and fool people into thinking they've happened onto a great deal or some easy money, when they're the ones who'll be making money.

If that doesn't work, they'll take advantage of our weaknesses -- loneliness, insecurity, poor health or simple ignorance.

The only thing more important to a con artist than perfecting a con is perfecting a total lack of conscience.

What does the average con artist look like? Despite what you may think, he isn't always a shady-looking character. A con artist is an expert at looking however he needs to look. If the con involves banking or investments, the con artist will wear a snappy suit. If it involves home improvement scams, he'll show up wearing well-worn work clothes. Even the basic assumption that the con is a "he" is incorrect: there are plenty of con women too.

You might think you can spot a con artist because he's someone you instinctively "don't trust." But the term con artist is short for confidence artist -- they gain your confidence just long enough to get their hands on your money.

They can be very charming and persuasive. A good con artist can even make you believe he is really an old friend you haven't seen in years.

Con artists do share certain characteristics, however.

Even the best con can only go on for so long before people start getting suspicious.
For that reason, con artists tend to move frequently.

They may have a job that allows this, or they might claim to have such a job. Railroad worker, carnival worker and traveling salesman are all parts con artists play to cover up their constant relocations.

It would be impo­ssible to catalogue every con, because con artists are inventive. While many cons are simply variations on ones that are hundreds of years old, new technologies and laws give con artists the opportunity to create original scams.

Many cons tend to fall into a few general categories, however: street cons, business cons, Internet cons, loan cons and home improvement cons.

Out of "Breck Waters" Wor
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1.18.2012

Husband Sacrifices Life Jacket For Wife

Reading the article on the Costa Concordia Cruise Disaster from Huffington post what kept coming back at me was…

He did what any husband would have done for his wife.

Again

He did what any husband would have done for his wife.

As the Costa Concordia cruise ship went down off the west coast of Italy Jan. 13, Nicole Servel's husband, Francis, gave her the only life jacket they had. He knew Nicole could not swim.

He did what any husband would have done for his wife.

Then Francis Servel disappeared into the icy waters.

He did what any husband would have done for his wife.

God Bless you Francis Servel. You will be rewarded in Heaven!

Again the words resonated inside of me -

He did what any husband would have done for his wife.

Any husband but mine.

Mine would have donned the lifejacket - laughed as he prepared to swim to shore and would have as he turned to swim - pushed me under the icy waters hoping to speed up the process of my demise.
I envision that he would have turned when he had placed some distance between us just to see if I had risen back to the surface.
And confident because he did not see me swimming that I was gone - would have laughed the rest of the way to shore.

After many years of marriage, my husband out of the blue - walked out on me. He thought I would drown in the sorrow.

No Buddy, I would not die for your leaving.

But what you did after that I guess I could call it a “touch and go.”

However, I was able to get public assistance to keep me afloat.

Damn…she’s not drowning yet!

So next step - He stopped paying the storage bill and I lost everything. Things that can never be replaced!

And for a moment - another touch and go - but…

Damn… she’s not drowning yet!

No "Mr.Whatever Name You Are Hiding Behind Today"…Not Yet!

You see I grabbed on to whatever would keep me afloat or perhaps it was the hand much stronger than your hand which dared to push me under the icy waters - the Hand of God - who lifted me up…

Because as Robert Frost wrote:

I have... "miles to go before I sleep"
Out of "Breck Waters" Wor
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